How long are
you going to go on planning to conquer the world
and fill it full of yourself?
Jalal al-din Rumi(1207-73)
Introduction
This course is designed to benefit
anyone who wishes to solve conflicts effectively,
enhance relationships and enjoyment of their life.
A basic knowledge of psychology can help us resolve
many of the trepidations of life. Whether you
are having problems with relatives, your partner,
colleagues at work, bosses or neighbours etc.
The fact is that participation in this program
can help change all areas of your life.
This program combines life-changing technologies
with spiritual methods of empowering you.
KNOWLEDGE OF HUMAN PSYCHOLOGY CAN EMPOWER
YOU IN EVERY ASPECT OF YOUR LIFE
This insight of human psychology
can help you influence other people and thereby
make progress in your career, social standing
and indeed relationships.
If it's important for you to develop those personality
traits, which help you to -
·Cultivate great friendships / relationships,
·Inspire confidence in others,
·Advance your career and achieve success.
This course will help you to be that person because
your personality traits determine the way other
people see you and treat you.
MUCH OF MODERN PSYCHOLOGY IS COMPOSED OF ANCIENT
SUFI PHILOSOPHY
Psychology is a modern term used to empower people
but the methods have existed for many centuries
under different tags or labels.
Sufi Masters give us glimpses into their understanding
of enlightenment on the road to the states of
ecstasy. It is through dedication to prayer, devotion
to Allah that these men and women attain freedom
from pettiness of life and materialism of the
Dunya. They took the devotional path and found
knowledge pertaining to human happiness. The true
Sufi Mystics engaged in devotional practices to
Allah and in doing so acquired the knowledge.
They observed the 5 pillars fervently but in today's
world there is much less demand for the mystic
way of life. However, we are fortunate enough
to be able to access their teaching, which in
my opinion became labelled psychology in the west.
The mystic's search for the divine has led him
to understand the human mind and nature. Who does
not know the utterance, "to know me is to
know yourself" or "I am closer to you
than your jugular vain". Psychology includes
all that was written by Sufi masters in ancient
times.
Knowledge of psychology is used today to help
people and give them the skills they need to become
more effective in their social and business relationships.
· Develop the ability to change your life
from the position of pain to a position of power.
· Get an insight into the working of your
own mind and thereby understand the minds of others.
· Identify the subconscious issues running
your life.
We can help alter your thinking which in turn
will affect your behaviour, which will affect
your relationship with everyone in the world.
The world reacts to the way you behave. This course
attempts to uncover the secrets of effective behaviour.
Unfortunately we don't have any instant life
changing drugs to transform you. We do, however,
have a highly acclaimed formula, which will transport
you to a position of power.
Provided you work at the following exercises
understand and apply the reasoning contained within
the course. You shall resolve the issues holding
you back and set yourself free from limitations,
and onto a powerful new life.
Pre-requisite for undergoing this course
You must have a deep desire for causing changes
in you life and be prepared to work very hard
and not recoil at taking responsibility for yourself.
We hope you enjoy this course and find our teachings
life changing and empowering.
Example of people helped by the following
course
Arif feels that he looks bad in
front of his colleagues because he is overlooked
for promotion. Arif thinks his boss just doesn't
like him and he will never let him get on in life.
Arif 's enjoyment of his life is compromised because
of this. Arif feels that people, less qualified,
less charismatic, less good looking are doing
better then he. Arif looks and feels upset most
of the time.
Arif's boss Mr Malik say's "Arif is a good
quiet worker." He has been with us for many
years. Mr Malik feels that Arif is probably depressed;
it may be due to a family situation.
Bina is unhappy because she feels her children
don't show any love towards her. They're always
doing their own thing. They are not interested
in what she is going through. Bina feels disappointed
because she brought them up on her own as a single
parent. She says "I sacrificed my life for
my children, and they don't appreciate it."
Her 20-year-old son, stays in his room while things
need doing in the house. He takes no interest
in the family. The daughter she stays in her room
talking to her friends from college. Meanwhile
the chores are left to Bina to do, when she gets
back from work.
Her children feel that their mother is always
shouting at them. They feel she does not care
for them at all. The children call her "psycho
mum" and think that she is a career woman.
Rehana got married to a man for the second time,
and wants to love him, unfortunately, he is unromantic,
and a little cold. She would love him to make
her feel secure and safe. But he acts very detached,
almost like a polite guest, it is difficult to
feel emotionally close to him, he never talks
of love or romantic things. He says he is not
the romantic type. Rehana says "My husband
has a phobia of being in crowded places so if
I ask him to take me anywhere like a mosque on
eid day or Iftar party. He throws a big tantrum
and leaves me for a week or two. I would love
to meet a few couples to socialize with but he
can't see the reason for this". So we don't
socialize at all. She says their life consists
of watching television and going for walks once
a week and going to restaurants (which she likes).
He is very content, and has no wish to overcome
his anxiety about going to crowded places etc.
She thinks he doesn't really want to be with her
and that is why he is being unreasonable.
One gentleman I was coaching asked me, "Why
is it that people with less education, ideas,
and looks seem to get the greatest girlfriend,
good jobs and have a great social circle of friends,
where as me, I want to do better in each of these
areas, but don't seem to be getting anywhere?"
Well we all know people who look inept and may
be boring but seem to have money, close friends
etc. We also know people who are the life and
soul of the party but have no one close to love
or care for them, and are financially struggling?
It's all a question of using the right psychology.
Identifying and recognizing the issues are most
important for this exercise.
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